So the numbers below have a job attached to them.
Anchor to the right tier so you neither undersell nor overreach.
Your internal reference point is your GM senior-engineer band (you've described it as ~GM Level 7, roughly $140β190K total). That's the right mental anchor: a senior individual contributor with deep EV/CAN + validation depth, who also ships software.
Michigan / automotive, current. Use these to defend your number, not to recite at Dom.
| Role / band (Michigan) | Figure |
|---|---|
| Senior Systems Engineer (avg, MI) | ~$121K |
| Automotive Embedded (avg, MI) | ~$112K (most $75Kβ$116K) |
| System Validation Engineer (MI) | ~$94K avg Β· 75th pctile ~$117K Β· 90th ~$129K |
| Functional-safety specialist (the premium lane) | $170Kβ$195K |
| MI / CA OEM clusters | pay ~18β25% above national average |
You're not the median validation engineer β you're EV/CAN systems + validation + ships-software + DFSS Blackbelt + SAFe, on safety-critical work. That combination lands you in the upper-middle-to-premium part of the spread, not the average. The functional-safety premium band ($170β195K) is the ceiling reference; the senior-systems average ($121K) is the floor reference.
Your Hyundai figure (~$97K) sits below the Michigan senior-systems and automotive-embedded averages β i.e., it was below market for your profile. Do not let it become the anchor; it understates you. If asked about comp history, frame forward ("market for this profile in Michigan is X"), not backward.
Then negotiate the total package, not just base:
Note on the "$80β100/hr" figure from the prior planning note: that is the salary-replacement floor (roughly base Γ· 1,000β2,000 to break even on a ~$160β185K W-2 after you carry benefits + self-employment tax + utilization gaps) β it is not the market contract rate and is too low to anchor on. Use it only as your internal "below this, a W-2 is strictly better" walk-away floor. Quote market ($145β185/hr), not the floor.
This came to you warm, through a neighbor. Protect that.
Short, warm, gratitude-first, then a light substantive nudge. Edit the brackets and send from your professional email. SAM-CONFIRM the exact channel + whether John already submitted you to Dom before sending.
Why it's built this way: gratitude first (relationship), one line of relevant substance (so John can speak to your fit if asked), and a single clear question (direct-to-Dom vs. intro) so the ball moves with minimal friction. No numbers β comp is a Robo/Dom conversation, never a John one.
(All three were open questions in the original planning note; the meeting-prep page resolved them on 2026-06-02.)
Sources (market data, fetched 2026-06-18): Indeed β Senior System Engineer, MI Β· ZipRecruiter β Automotive Embedded, MI Β· ZipRecruiter β System Validation Engineer, MI Β· EV.Careers β ADAS / functional-safety premium Β· ZipRecruiter β Contract Embedded SW Engineer Β· Salary.com β Embedded Systems Engineering.